In The Spider sex position, you both become a tangle of eight tantalizing limbs, moving in sexual harmony. To get started, he leans back and allows her to crawl on top of him. As he braces himself on her arms, she straddles him but doesn’t rest her legs on either side of his hips. Instead, she lifts her legs up to his torso, leaning back on her arms. Together, you both adjust your hips, coming together in a web of shared pleasure.